Photos, Profile and Requirements

  • Photos
  • Best photo as profile photo
  • Photos a mix of studio ( business style photo) relaxed and standing
  • 2 – 5 photos
  • Recent photos less than a year old
  • Photos with facial hair (one photo at most)
  • Medium length hair, not short or long if possible
  • Photos with a date on are good
  • No food in photos, drinking, smoking
  • If you have thinking hair, a birthmark or sometime else show in a photo
  • Keep a good photo in reserve to send with first WhatsApp / Viber messages
  • I think best not to hide, in an extra photo can be shown

 

  • Profiles
  • Do not lie on anything (Else you will have to expain why you lied later)
  • Put your full real name.
  • Put your real date of birth (For this girls will do tests by asking when is your birthday of your star sign.) For me I normally do not put my real date of birth for security reasons. You will need to do here) (If you have a different DOB on your facebook, it needs to be changed)
  • Get profiles verified (the site will do this and it will cost a few pounds) Reassures girls that you are genuine, your age, nationality is correct and you are not married.
  • Fill everything in

 

  • Requirements  – What type of woman you would like to meet
  • You know this already, don’t let anyone try to change your mind
  • I have women writing to me all of the time saying, you have a child, why don’t you want a woman with a child. It’s because I don’t, none of their business.
  • You need to decide what is truely important for you.
  • What the deal breakers are:
  • Age, if they have children, if they want to have children, where they want to live when married, their weight, their height,
  • What the small points are:
  • Hair colour, eye colour, if the smoke, if they drink.
  • (most women say they don’t smoke, but many do sometimes)
  • Age – I would suggest a girl not less than 15 years younger than you. Even better no more than 10 years less. I’ve heard or – half + 7 years –  which sounds reasonable, until you get to a man in his 60’s or 70’s
  • If she has children – to take on a woman’s children and live with them full time is a very big thing. If you are not sure about this. Definitely do not look for a woman with children.
  • The kind of look the woman has, The type of woman                                                         Barbie, Geek, Business, Average looks
  • Jobs are a good way to find out the type of woman.
  • For example imagine meeting a barbie. Yes, she is the prettiest, but when she has taken her make up and everything else false off, there is little difference. Just that she would expect designer goods, luxury holidays and a big house for the rest of your life. There’s more chance that she would want to divorce earlier and take money off the man.
  • If she has been divorced and was married for a longtime without children, there is a chance that is infertile.
  • If a girl says that she is not sure if she would like to have children. I would take that as she never wants to have children.
  • The height you want a woman to be. I think it’s good that the girl is not taller than the man. As she will were heal sometimes a girl a maximum 5cm less than the man is fine.
  • Men have a preference for hair colour, but best not to get too hung up on this
  • Men don’t see that as important
  • Weight I think 65kg is the maximum for a woman, up to 70kg if she is tall.
  • Where they want to live when married, some don’t want to move from their country
  • Race this, almost all women are white, but there are some girls from Central Asia and stusents from India and Africa
  • All of these girls are damaged in one way or another. They are not married and do not have children in countries where most get married and have children in their early or mid 20’s. They have a stigma, they do not have the same respect as a married woman. Their female relatives will be reminding them all of the time that they need to marry and have children. When her mum has Grandchildren the respect to her is increased.